The original poster was asking about beating this information out of Wolfram|Alpha. 
I got part way by splitting the problem. First I did the sum, 
 sum (i/(i^2 + n^2)), i=1 to n 
I then used the Copyable PlainText link to get the output into another W|A window. I wrote the Limit out fully. 
Limit as n goes to infinity of 1/2 (-polygamma(0, 1-i n)-polygamma(0, i n+1)+polygamma(0, (1-i) n+1)+polygamma(0, (1+i) n+1))
That tried but ran out of time. 
simplify (-polygamma(0, 1-i n)-polygamma(0, i n+1)+polygamma(0, (1-i)  n+1)+polygamma(0, (1+i) n+1))
Gave a sum of Harmonic numbers, which did not look nicer to deal with.