While this thread is old, it appears to be still relevant.
First of all, one may note that DESlib has not been abandoned as there is DESlib2, which has been developed and tested using Dymola 2021 according to the developers (V. Sanz and A. Urquia):
http://www.euclides.dia.uned.es
In a very recent paper, Sanz and Urquia describe their implementation of message passing communication (MPC), which is based on earlier developments of Parallel DEVS (PDEVS) by the authors:
Sanz and Urquia (2022) Cyber-physical system modeling with Modelica using message passing communication
(Links to earlier works can be found on Victorino Sanz Prat's website.)
What does make the MCP/PDEVS approach interesting imo is the fact, that the authors also use it to implement agent-based modeling capabilities in Modelica next to the before mentioned process-based discrete-event simulation. This is interesting, as to my knowledge there are not too many tools out there that fully allow to mix say system dynamics, discrete-event, and agent-based modeling (AnyLogic, of course, comes to mind).