Did you mean this? (See notebook)
But it won't give Matrix.{Amn,Bmn,Cmn} ==0, because there are terms containing Dqx ans Dqy
But look at
pp = cM.{Amn, Bmn, Cmn} - {0, Dqx \[Psi]xmn, Dqy \[Psi]ymn};
pp[[1]] - e1 // Simplify
pp[[2]] - e2 // Simplify
pp[[3]] - e3 // Simplify
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