Trying to correct code with the suggestions. I didn't see how I could use MemberQ; so I used Element. How would you tweak the code below to get a proof that {1,2,3} = {3,2,1}.
axiom2 = ForAll[{x, y},
Implies[ForAll[z, Equivalent[Element[z, x], Element[z, y]]],
x === y]];
seta = {1, 2, 3};
setb = {3, 2, 1};
FindEquationalProof[seta === setb, axiom2]