Oops, you're right about the minus sign. I was careless. [Now edited to fix the error.]
I understood that the basis for your question was that y is being set as a function of t and tried to address that. Apparently, I haven't succeeded yet. Sorry about that, but I'm also unsure how to make clear that the dependence of the solution function on t is different than the dependence of the differential equation on t.
Note that every ODE in which the independent variable is t has solutions that are functions of t. If that disqualified an ODE from being autonomous, then no ODE would be autonomous, and the term would serve no purpose. It must be the case that a different interpretation was intended.
In the equation
$y'=5+y$, I think of
$y'$ and
$y$ as variables connected by the equation. The variables
$y'$ and
$y$ represent real numbers. We can plug in real numbers for them, and the equation will be satisfied or not. We can also plug in expressions for them, and the equation will be satisfied or not. As an equation there is no variable
$t$. The equation becomes a differential equation by following: A solution to the differential is a function
$g(t)$ such that if we plug in
$y=g(t)$ and
$y=g'(t)$, the equation is satisfied. That is, we have to plug the derivative of the function for
$y$ into
$y'$.
In treating
$y'=5+y$ as a differential equation,
$t$ does not appear in the equation; it appears in the solution. If we write the equation as
$y'(t)=5+y(t)$, this suggests we're plugging in some solution or other. Then, to my mind, it is no longer properly a differential equation; it is the original equation with a function of
$t$ plugged into it. Plugging in a function of
$t$ does not make the original equation depend on
$t$.
I believe most mathematicians, myself included, would think saying that
$y'=5+y$ and
$y'(t)=5+y(t)$ are different equations is a technical quibble. But if the presence of
$t$ as an argument of the variables
$y$ and
$y'$ is the basis for saying the differential equation is not autonomous, then I have to resort to a technical objection.
I put the same argument in functional terms before, so I'm unsure it will convince you. Here's a rephrasing. Suppose we have a function or formula
$F(a,b,c)$, such as
$F(a,b,c)=c-5-b$. There is no
$a$ in the example formula. A differential equation is what you get when you plug in
$t,y,y'$ and set equal to zero:
$F(t,y,y')=0$. In our example, we obtain
$y'-5-y=0$ which is equivalent to
$y'=5+y$. There was no
$a$ in
$F(a,b,c)$, and there is no explicit
$t$ in
$F(t,y,y')$. Whenever one of the variables is missing in the formula for
$F$, there is something special about the differential equation. When
$t$ is missing, we say the equation is autonomous.
The meaning of autonomous is "self-law" or "self-ruling." The future trajectory of
$y$ is completely determined by the value of
$y$:
$y'=f(y)$ determines how
$y$ changes in the future. How
$y$ changes at a given time
$t$ does not depend on the value of
$t$, only on the value of itself. That may not convince that I'm right about the definition. But that is the concept of autonomous that the definition is supposed to define.
Hope that helps.