I have this same problem on my iMac Pro running Big Sur. I have always used MacPorts, not Homebrew, and I already have FFmpeg installed. FFmpeg on my machine is in directory /opt/local/bin and this directory is listed when I do PATH from terminal on the Mac. Mathematica 12.2 seems unable to find my copy of FFmpeg and I get the message about a "lite" version of FFmpeg being used when I try to run VideoCombine. I tried adding /opt/local/bin to Mathematica's $Path list, but this did not resolve the problem.
I don't want to install FFmpeg with Homebrew as I understand that it is well documented that MacPorts and Homebrew do not play well together on the same machine. I have too many other applications working just fine with MacPorts to switch to Homebrew at this time. How can I get my MacPorts version of FFmpeg to work with VideoCombine? Is there some alternative to the Homebrew version of FFmpeg which I could install to make VideoCombine work correctly?