Perhaps this is a case of too many projects underway at once. I saw Wolfram people using 10.0.2 for their talks at the Wolfram Technology conference in October, so it is not 'vaporware', and there are real fixes to problems. I would have thought that 10.0.2 would have been out already.
Workbench 3 won't be out until 2015 (early), from what I have been told, but I have no information about a version 10 compliant CDF player. David Park, in his discussions on this thread, has convinced me to give workbench another shot, but I cannot share any of my version 10 work with non-Mathematica owners until there is a CDF player that they can use.
From the viewpoint of a user, I think it is time for a semi-major version -- say 10.1.0 -- that would consist of nothing but bug fixes and bringing CDF player, Workbench, etc. into sync with the main product.
I would include in this 'bug fix' release such things as the Cocoa front end for OS X that is way overdue. I am fully cognizant of the technical difficulties, but the Carbon APIs that are in the current front end have been deprecated for at least 5 years. I am sure that there are similar issues for Windows and Linux. This discussion started on the topic of stability, and from all anecdotal information, the OS X version is far more stable than Windows or Linux.
We have not had a '.1' release since version 5.1; they were fairly common before then. While naming versions is somewhat arbitrary, a 0.0.1 update indicates that there are minor changes, or stuff that did not make the cutoff. A '.1' release indicates, to me at least, that significant issues with the product have been rectified without making substantial changes in the program's 'footprint'.
I think that this is exactly what Mathematica needs.